Reconcilable Differences, Second Edition

Every couple has disagreements, but what happens when recurring conflicts start to pull your relationship apart? Do you lie awake hoping that your spouse will eventually see things your way, or rehashing the evidence that you’re right? Demand some immediate changes–or else? This popular, science-based guide offers powerful solutions for couples frustrated by continual attempts to make each other change. True acceptance may seem difficult to accomplish, but the clear-cut steps and thought-provoking exercises in this book can make it a reality. You’ll learn why you keep having the same fights again and again; how to keep small incompatibilities from causing big problems; what communication strategies really work to resolve conflicts; and how to problem-solve and make positive changes–together. Updated throughout with new research, practical tools, and examples, the second edition features a new chapter on mindfulness. Mental health professionals: visit http://ibct.psych.ucla.edu to learn about using this self-help guide as an adjunct to therapy.Additional ISBNs: 1462512313, 1462513042, 9781462512317, 9781462513048Reconcilable Differences, Second Edition: Rebuild Your Relationship by Rediscovering the Partner You Love–without Losing Yourself 2nd Edition is written by Andrew Christensen; Brian D. Doss; Neil S. Jacobson and published by The Guilford Press. The Digital and eTextbook ISBNs for Reconcilable Differences, Second Edition are 9781462513253, 1462513255 and the print ISBNs are 9781462502431, 1462502431.